Have you ever felt like starting your own business? One that makes money twenty four hours per day – even as you sleep? Great Idea – one of the best you’ve had. So what’s your big business idea? Have you thought of the specific opportunity you will be targeting. Have you thought about how much money you will make?
Of course you have – BUT, unless you really believe you can make a difference, don’t waste your time. Skip over this article – in fact ALL the resources on this site, and go back to what you were doing before. They’ll be of no help to you at all.
Well, the painful truth is…
Whether you think you can or you think you can’t – you will always prove yourself right
Yes – your beliefs will always win out. Have you ever noticed that trying hard to make a change in your life when, in your heart of hearts, you don’t really believe it, only causes you frustration and heartache?
The truth is you can only make a difference to your life if you believe you can. If you don’t truly have faith with all your heart and soul that you can do or have something in your life, then you won’t. Sure, you’ll have minor successes along the way, but you will abandon, sabotage, or even spoil them so that your demons (negative beliefs) will one-day say, “I told you so”.
How to STOP the ‘I Told You So’s
If you really want to start and run your own enterprise, then you must first change your beliefs in relation to it. Let’s face it, if you really and truly believed you could be a success in business – you already would. Why? – because you can only achieve what you believe.
That’s it, pure and simple. You need to go back to basics – back to the supporting belief. Just as if you’re building a house on the site of a toolshed. You’d be mad to simply replace the toolshed with your new house. No – you need first to clear the plot, dig down and put the foundations in. You need to support the development of your new construction. You need to make sure that the infrastructure is there – water pipes, waste collection, electricity supply, gas pipes and access to a road. Otherwise your house will quickly fall around you – if it ever gets completed in the first place.
So before you go chasing house-sized dreams, you’d better make sure they’re not supported by shed-sized beliefs. Otherwise you’ll end up like one of those lottery winners who can’t handle their fortune, and you’ll have to tell all your friends that success was the worst thing that ever happened to you.
How embarrassing would this be?
No, let’s start afresh and lay the foundations of a successful business here. Let us make the preparations that’ll support your success and happiness for the rest of your life. Let’s adopt the values beliefs that will serve you automatically. Remember that it’s just as much work to fail as it is to succeed – the only difference is in your mind. Change your mind, and you won’t have to ‘work’ at getting what you want – you’ll attract it.
The Law of Attraction is a powerful force
Have you ever noticed that certain people are somehow ‘luckier’ than others?
Did you know that the most successful people are headhunted while the rest of us are still reading the recruitment pages?
That’s The Law of Attraction. People attract the fabric of their lives just as they attarct their luck. Tell me this – have you ever seen an advertisement for Rolls Royce Cars? No? Why do you think that is then?
Because Rolls Royce Cars are the best – they attract their customers without having to go out and advertise. We all know something about their inherent qualities. We all know that a Rolls Royce is a big-ticket item, produced with the best engineering and components money can buy. Consequently, it attracts the type of customer who expects this level of quality and who can afford it.
So your homework is to see yourself in the Rolls Royce bracket, and really believe you belong there. Not necessarily someone who drives the car, but someone who deserves that type of quality and comfort in their lives.
If you really believe that you are a desirable, premium, top-of-the-line ‘product’ – and I mean really believe it – you’ll attract more of the same.
Stay Away From NOS People
Just as some people attract ‘lives of quiet desperation’ using NOS (Negativity On Steroids), many others attract business success using the flip side of the same techniques. Don’t be the one complaining about how life has used and abused you, or how ‘unlucky’ you are. NO! Be the opulent optimist who expects the best. You have an onerous responsibility after all – you are in charge of programming the most advanced computer that evolution has ever produced. So program wisely my friend. Your future business depends upon it.
Here’s something that I’ve adapted from my NLP days. Use it wisely because it’s more powerful that Voodoo.
Are you changing your posture, your focus or your internal voice for this belief? I bet you are!